Guilty As Charged?
Probably. Maybe? Maybe not?
If someone thinks you are a “jerk”, because you never call, email, write – it could make you feel really guilty.
The antidote?
Remind yourself that it’s a two way street.
And that what the other person sees in you and is unhappy with, is the same thing you see in them and are unhappy with.
While this doesn’t completely wipe away my guilt, it certainly helps.
Old habits of dysfunction can be hard to break. Hard to change.
My biggest struggle? What’s the process to start the change. And then, how do we keep the positive change alive?
Carpe diem, jeff noel 🙂