Husband, Father, Teacher, Coach

Brad Ramsey tribute
The entire High School Football team (31 players) took the stage as one player (#55) spoke warmly, and highly of Brad’s ability to inspire and teach in both the classroom & on the field.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
The HS Principal provided a doodle paper in memory of Brad “always doodling”.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
We were invited to use the paper any way we wanted…passionate, inventive, selfless.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
We were also invited to leave our paper in the baskets provided as we exited, for Brad’s Family.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
i wrote sound bites from various speakers, including Brad’s daughter Megan.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
This is what was captured. i addressed it to Brad’s wife and daughter and signed it from my Family.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
We concluded outside with four light-candle kites being released.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
Kite one.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
Upward to the Heavens.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
Slowly , yet steadfastly.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
Two kites (and a star or planet, lower left) almost out of sight.

 

Brad Ramsey tribute
Last night, October 17, 2016 at WPS Gym.

 

Do you have a plan for how you want to die?

Do you plan on eventually having a death plan?

Does the thought of dying scare you?

Does the thought of dying make you live more intentionally yesterday, today and tomorrow?

Questions like these have helped me think more intentionally about the gift of life and how precious each day is, if we only have eyes to see.

 

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Ten left

Living like you were dying
Yesterday from a High School classmate’s Facebook feed.

 

In 2009, i began a 10-year journey to live as though June 8, 2019 (60th bday) is my last day.

i read about half of a long article yesterday. Here is my summary:

Rather than contemplating the stereotypical “What if you only had 6 months to live”, or the article’s reflection on a 9-month course with the same question, but with 3 extra months, i began over 7 years ago living as if i only had 10 years.

A complete and radical departure from “you have less than a year to live.”

Ten left.

What if you only had 10 years left?

A decade.

Everything i’ve done since 2009 has emanated from, “What if i only had until my 60th birthday to do everything in life i wanted to do?

The caveat being, none of us know if we’ll see tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, etc.

Now, with 2 years 8 months until the “dead” line, an enhanced sense of urgency is emerging.

There is potential ridicule and talk behind my back, to which i am working diligently to surrender to and designate a non-issue.

Meanwhile, my enjoyment of that which is in front of me this very moment (typing this for example) brings such great joy, and peace.

 

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Live like you mean it

 

Live like you mean it.

 

What inspires you?

Focus on that.

Please.

Don’t wait until tomorrow to get to it.

Waiting becomes a habit, and then we never do.

 

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What does this mean?

Beach sunflower
The next to last photo taken during the week on Sanibel Island 2014.

 

Beach sunflower
The last photo taken during the week on Sanibel Island 2014.

 

What does this mean?

Why were these the final two photographs from a week on Sanibel Island?

i don’t know.

Yellow, daisy, yellow, Lab, beach sunflower, abundant, memories?

 

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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.

 

Good morning first day of 2016, i’m dying

Disney inspirational conference speaker
Zion National Park, 2011-ish.

 

Note: This post was written before sunrise January 1, 2016..

Good morning 2016, i’m dying.

Did he just say that?

Yep.

i’m dying.

Here’s the thing, we are all dying.

Few of us are preparing for it.

In 2008-2009, i started to ask myself, “Why?”

The buzz that many had last night from alcohol pales in comparison to the buzz i get from living without regret, living with peace and contentment, living with constant gratitude.

Lived with the first (alcohol) for about 28 years. Living with the second (no alcohol) for 15 years now.

Yes, this is an expert opinion.

 

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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.

This website is about our home health. To leave this site to read today’s post on my mental attitude website, click here.