Leaving a trail for our son – Page 5 – Disney Creativity and Innovation Keynote Speaker

To each their own, home

To each their own.

Live and let live.

Live and learn.

Dear Son, our life equals our habits. Our habits equal our results. Therefore, our life equals our results.

Insight: The way we live our life is what determines our life’s results.

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This website is about our HOME. This is the fifth of five daily, differently-themed blog posts about: (1) mind, (2) body, (3) spirit, (4) work, (5) home. To return to Mid Life Celebration, the site about MIND, click here.

Live and let live, home

Sanibel sunset — Reverse sunsets are when you turn 180-degrees around.

Sing Like No One Is Listening. Driving to Sanibel.

sanibel — This 4-year old’s look is as if i had said, “Only 7 more years and we’ll get a pool”

Family Christmas beach photo — Summer 2005 on Sanibel Island.

Mom and son floating in Gulf of Mexico at Sanibel Island — Sanibel Island. Every Summer. Cheryl and i vacationed there for a decade or so before our son was born.

dog and two boys at beach — Cooper, Chapin, and an unknown person.

Live and let live.

Kinda like doing unto others as you would want them to do unto you.

People will think differently than you.

People will prioritize better than you.

People will prioritize worse than you.

People will like how you prioritize.

People will dislike how you prioritize.

Through it all, remember this mantra…

Live and let live.

Insight: This is what you want others to do for you as well.

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Live and learn, home

cross-country bicyclist at ocean — Before a mortgage, career and family, we had time-freedom that disappeared with adult obligations. Photo: Honeymoon bicycle trip next to the Pacific Ocean.

Live and learn.

Has a nice ring to it.

So much living and learning at home.

So many necessities, like a refrigerator, running water, indoor plumbing.

Closets, dressers, shelves. All filled with stuff.

Filing cabinets for the paperwork of life. Full.

Never ends. At least it seems so.

But what have i learned from all my/our stuff?

For me personally, i’d like to live with as few things as possible.

Why?

So i don’t have to store them, take care of them, and possibly insure them.

Why does that matter to me?

So i can spend mental, physical, and spiritual energy living and having fun with people i love.

Insight: We spend time chasing money until one day we start spending money chasing time.

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Let’s make “SYDK” a category, home

two people at mountain pass — Dear Son, your passion for card strategy games is remarkable. Loved that we got to play Dominion for three days at Sperry in 2025. Love that you got to experience Sperry for the first time in such a special way.

Dear Son, it has been fun thinking and writing about this stuff today.

Started writing today’s five posts a couple hours ago.

The first two posts flowed easily and quickly. Third post also easy, but focus started to fade as the morning progressed.

Why?

It’s Saturday and there are a few other things calling my name.

One of the biggest opportunities that’s creating dynamic tension in my vibrancy is letting go of work stuff and space.

In my head, the dumb idea to get the thought-party started is: “Could i clear office selves, drawers, and other spaces for your use?”

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Shit you didn’t know, home

canadian license plate — A special family sign, randomly found during one of my frequent Canada trips for Disney Institute.

Publix grocery store — Today’s lesson was about the completely empty parking lot. When it officially opens, it will be “our” Publix.

father and son at apple store — We are Apple Store ‘frequent flyers’.

father and son at small town sign — Desire and courage. Like father and son. i think this photo is on the way to a remote Cub Scout camping trip.

Florida family enjoying backyard pool — Central Florida swim season starts on the vernal equinox.

Windermere Prep high school athletic field — Lower left: Dr Rawlings (English) and our Son (new to school, freshman) talking about the home football game’s low attendance.

Family gathering — A rare personal Family group photo, July 16, 2016.

Track workout — Each person has a different reason for being there at 7am on a hot, humid summer morning. Chapin on far right.

child in flowers — i write for my Family, particularly my Son and Wife.

school parade Dr Tom Marcy and Willow — Big ‘all-school” parade. Headmaster Dr Tom Marcy and his dog Willow. Our Son is walking behind Dr Marcy.

bear jam in National Park — Carrying a huge camera has been out of my comfort zone since our son was born. This is a ‘bear-jam’ on Going-to-the-Sun Road in Glacier.

little boy in hospital bed holding three teddy bears — Our son in a hospital bed holding three teddy bears. He had three colonoscopies between his 4th and 5th birthdays.

Glacier National Park and Stitch figurine — A favorite Disney character that goes everywhere i go, for a specific reason – love, Ohana.

Dear Son,

Shit you didn’t know…

How could you?

You were just a kid.

What you didn’t know is…

How being your dad inspired and guided everything i did (and why i did it)…

The ONLY reason i started blogging was to get writing practice to write and publish a book. The book was a 1979 self-promise to capture my life’s greatest lessons outside a classroom. It would serve as a life-guide for our children.

Blogging completed its writing-practice objective.

But something weird and unexpected happened.

i couldn’t stop writing.

Why?

i enjoy it and i couldn’t help myself.

Still enjoying it.

Still can’t help myself.

And here we are some 18 years later, never missing a day.

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