The original post that went live at 12:05am this morning has been taken down.
Why?
It was deeply personal.
Maybe too personal.
The key insight today is that passion and compromise sometimes must find a way to coexist.
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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.
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The group goes out to dinner every Wednesday at 6pm. i arrived at 8pm, after not hearing anything.
Organize your thoughts jeff, or get buried.
Three nights ago, i had a parental meltdown.
Long story short.
Our 15-year old didn’t communicate and didn’t respond to my communications.
Compound this by a ripple effect of four other reliable communication options leading to dead ends.
i did not know where my son was and drove to the place they were supposed to be.
Nothing.
Rather than be cool, calm, and collected, i choose to reveal my anger and disappointment. i raised my voice, used profanity, got in his face.
When a parent doesn’t know where their child is and has no way of finding out, it’s the worst feeling in the world.
In no uncertain terms, this can never happen again.
Ever.
To make this point stick his options were:
Smash your iPhone 5 with this hammer, or no YuGiOh tournaments for a month.
The goal was to create a memory he will never forget.
And reinforce that no matter which consequence he picks, it would be a drop in the bucket compared to the consequences if it ever happens again.
i am not mad at him.
i’m embarrassed by my actions, but ok with them because i was intentional.
i take responsibility for never being more clear.
And i take solace now that there is no longer any lack of clarity.
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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.
This website is about our home health. To leave this site to read today’s post on my mental attitude website, click here.
Photo of airport merchandise shop cash register display of small stones.
The work is hard whether we are organized or not. Much has been accomplished this past week. It’s been challenging. Missing some sleep in order to finish it all.
i don’t mind because much of the time-consuming work is to make the coming days, weeks, and months much easier.
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On April Fool’s Day 2009, jeff noel began writing five daily, differently-themed blogs (on five different sites). It was to be a 100-day self-imposed “writer’s bootcamp”, in preparation for writing his first book. He hasn’t missed a single day since.
This website is about our home health. To leave this site to read today’s post on my mental attitude website, click here.
How many close friends did Walt Disney have when he died?
There is something about being willing to fail that is profoundly motivating, at least to me. If you want to teach a child, you must actually do the things you preach – and do them well. The lofty theory you lecture them with is only theory (again, at least to me).
Theory without habitual action is worthless.
A picture of a tool is not a tool.
Theory is only theory.
Until it is not.
Here’s a theory…
To die with five friends is to die rich?
But isn’t more, better?
(no)
Much of what we are fed to believe is based on the herd mentality. Strength in numbers. There’s a time and place for that.
To each his/her own.
Then why do i have so many friends on Facebook?
(Have been struggling with social media. Occasional posts, like this one, are part of my journey.)
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