Dear Son, some important context notes, home

Three five year old boys having fun poolside
Charlie, EJ, and Chapin (at EJ’s birthday party at his pool, 2005).

Son, you grew up with Charlie and EJ as your “friend-cousins”. Not related by anything except Nana’s Christian Academy for two years as three and four year olds. Only 10 children, aged infant to four.

When you graduated Nana’s house and each moved to different Pre-K schools, all six parents committed to staying connected like ‘family’.

That faded as you three started middle-school, and then three different high-school schedules changed everything.

Eventually you enter a new High School and meet Renato and Skylar. Same thing happened like it did with Charlie and EJ.

New friendships and commonalities blossomed.

And six parents, new to each other, begin to see the benefit of “cousin-like” community.

You and Mom led most of the continual bonding by hosting almost weekly get-togethers at our house.

And then you three visited Glacier together for a week, seven Summers in a row. (Covid-19, 2020 was an anomaly…) This Summer, 2026 was the first Summer you’ve all missed. College grads, new full-time jobs, etc.

Hope the future brings all three families simple, good and decent blessings.

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Be the wine, home

Glacier National Park
Glacier National Park’s Logan Pass years ago, late September with Djuan and Michael (from Australia). Truth be told, i’ve been known to whine about the cold.

Be the wine, not the hangover. -social media

Be the reason, not the excuse. – dad

Note: Be the reason you prioritized your priorities, not the excuse why you never did.

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Wealthy, at home

child with butterfly net in wildflower meadow
Pure joy. At home. Early 2000’s.

Wealth is when you have something money can’t buy.

At home this looks like a person who behaves like a CEO. Why? Because you are the CEO of You, Inc. You’ve honed a lifestyle where you consistently over-focus on the same things you used to under-focus on or ignore.

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Second day home in a month, home

Two books next to a large Stromatolite fossil in Glacier National Park
My book and Cheryl’s book next to a large Stromatolite fossil in Glacier National Park, 2021.

Future Summers (and years) are exciting to think about.

Why?

Uncharted territory.

Loads of experience.

Desire.

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First day home in a month, home

Glacier National Park
Still smiling from all this Summer’s Glacier memories.
feet up on a fire pit
No place like home.

No place like home.

Home is ‘home’ vibrancy, led by prioritized priorities.

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